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Re: Rainbow Ramblings! (LGBTQ[AEIOUsometimesY]** Thread)

Postby Syliana » Mon Mar 08, 2021 7:44 am

JazzMusicStops wrote:I'm not going to quote the post but that was very informative

However "zucchini" is quite possibly the worst word ever to refer to people in any kind of relationship and coupled with the whole squish/smush/whatever thing I feel like we shouldn't let lolrandom fourteen-year-olds name things that could otherwise have been taken seriously

My thoughts exactly. It was interesting to read but as soon as zucchini popped up I was just "Really?"
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Re: Rainbow Ramblings! (LGBTQ[AEIOUsometimesY]** Thread)

Postby Descender » Mon Mar 08, 2021 8:12 am

there are alot of big words in this thread and im getting intimidated
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Re: Rainbow Ramblings! (LGBTQ[AEIOUsometimesY]** Thread)

Postby BRVR » Mon Mar 08, 2021 11:21 am

Ascender wrote:there are alot of big words in this thread and im getting intimidated

same i can barely read so most of the time i'm just like oooh! then a big word pops up and im like oooh?
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Re: Rainbow Ramblings! (LGBTQ[AEIOUsometimesY]** Thread)

Postby Descender » Mon Mar 08, 2021 11:55 am

BRVR wrote:
Ascender wrote:there are alot of big words in this thread and im getting intimidated

same i can barely read so most of the time i'm just like oooh! then a big word pops up and im like oooh?

oooh.
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Re: Rainbow Ramblings! (LGBTQ[AEIOUsometimesY]** Thread)

Postby BRVR » Mon Mar 08, 2021 2:33 pm

Ascender wrote:
BRVR wrote:
Ascender wrote:there are alot of big words in this thread and im getting intimidated

same i can barely read so most of the time i'm just like oooh! then a big word pops up and im like oooh?

oooh.

oooh.
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Re: Rainbow Ramblings! (LGBTQ[AEIOUsometimesY]** Thread)

Postby Descender » Mon Mar 08, 2021 3:03 pm

BRVR wrote:
Ascender wrote:
BRVR wrote:
Ascender wrote:there are alot of big words in this thread and im getting intimidated

same i can barely read so most of the time i'm just like oooh! then a big word pops up and im like oooh?

oooh.

oooh.

glad we agree
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Re: Rainbow Ramblings! (LGBTQ[AEIOUsometimesY]** Thread)

Postby Fenraiser » Mon Mar 08, 2021 5:34 pm

JazzMusicStops wrote:I'm not going to quote the post but that was very informative

However "zucchini" is quite possibly the worst word ever to refer to people in any kind of relationship and coupled with the whole squish/smush/whatever thing I feel like we shouldn't let lolrandom fourteen-year-olds name things that could otherwise have been taken seriously

Lol, as long as the peeps are comfy it should be fine, pretty sure this is fluid and you can call such a partner anything one wants tbh. I am very glad it was informative btw. Zuchinni was kinda weird to me but it's somewhat endearing. I'm gonna look it up again to understand more.

In the defense of random fourteen-year-olds, in a world where you don't see much representation of your own experiences/identities (queerplatonic, asexual and aromantic spectrum, alterous, etc.), having such terms or making up such terms (in cases where it doesn't really exist especially) can be really validating. As always, exact labels can be up to debate (esp. with "queer" given the history).

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Ascender wrote:there are alot of big words in this thread and im getting intimidated

same i can barely read so most of the time i'm just like oooh! then a big word pops up and im like oooh?

Dang it, I'll try to be more clear then ya'll. The English language is both painful and fun, and I struggle to keep things short and simple sometimes.
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Re: Rainbow Ramblings! (LGBTQ[AEIOUsometimesY]** Thread)

Postby Fenraiser » Mon Mar 08, 2021 6:49 pm

I think what I want from people seems to be more of alterous/platonic than romantic (though I think I want romance too but I've never been in love so maybe that's something for me), so having stuff labeled like this at least for alterous/queerplatonic was useful to me now and then as I'm still questioning.

I've learned that some experiences are hard to label or don't have a label, so sometimes you have to make your own or look towards the internet and online communities for support and guidance since locally LGTBQ+ people don't have that support/guidance face-to-face.

The most important thing I learned is that even if I don't have a name for how I feel that doesn't make my experience invalid. I've come to view labels as way to describe ourselves moreso than defining ourselves completely-

Like, can we really define a person we know with one single word and say that's who they are? No, of course not lol.

Sorry for my rambling, I felt it was nice to share and inform.
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Re: Rainbow Ramblings! (LGBTQ[AEIOUsometimesY]** Thread)

Postby BRVR » Mon Mar 08, 2021 7:00 pm

I don't have any desire to do the nasty with people, but i would like to cuddle some people and hold hands and stuff. I never really payed attention to genders. After talking with them and being friends I wanna do that stuff. That's not weird right? Maybe I'm just not old enough cuz i still think the nasty is disgusting.
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Re: Rainbow Ramblings! (LGBTQ[AEIOUsometimesY]** Thread)

Postby dolphina » Mon Mar 08, 2021 7:25 pm

BRVR wrote:I don't have any desire to do the nasty with people, but i would like to cuddle some people and hold hands and stuff. I never really payed attention to genders. After talking with them and being friends I wanna do that stuff. That's not weird right? Maybe I'm just not old enough cuz i still think the nasty is disgusting.

demiromantic. you’re describing demiromantic. and no that isnt weird
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Re: Rainbow Ramblings! (LGBTQ[AEIOUsometimesY]** Thread)

Postby Fenraiser » Mon Mar 08, 2021 7:28 pm

BRVR wrote:I don't have any desire to do the nasty with people, but i would like to cuddle some people and hold hands and stuff. I never really payed attention to genders. After talking with them and being friends I wanna do that stuff. That's not weird right? Maybe I'm just not old enough cuz i still think the nasty is disgusting.

That's not weird at all friend. It is totally okay and valid to feel that way no matter who tells you otherwise.

Some people don't want or have a desire to do the nasty with others from the adolescent to adult years, and those people would usually fall onto the asexual spectrum. Having the desire to do the nasty after you get to know the person (regardless of gender) could be described as being demisexual or even pansexual.

I know social pressure encourages people to get together romantically or sexually, but if you don't want to or have the desire to do so, you don't have to do such things at all.

I had to have a talk with my dad when he's pushing me to do the nasty with ladies with this comments (typical dad stuff) when he knows I'm not interested and that I as a dude is gay as hell. Fortunately, he stopped, but that's after I explained how his actions devalue and invalidate my feelings and identity (my dad is accepting so I am able to talk to him about these things safely).
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Re: Rainbow Ramblings! (LGBTQ[AEIOUsometimesY]** Thread)

Postby BRVR » Mon Mar 08, 2021 7:53 pm

;~;
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Re: Rainbow Ramblings! (LGBTQ[AEIOUsometimesY]** Thread)

Postby JazzMusicStops » Tue Mar 09, 2021 7:14 am

BRVR wrote:I don't have any desire to do the nasty with people, but i would like to cuddle some people and hold hands and stuff. I never really payed attention to genders. After talking with them and being friends I wanna do that stuff. That's not weird right? Maybe I'm just not old enough cuz i still think the nasty is disgusting.

You're still a kid this is completely normal
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Re: Rainbow Ramblings! (LGBTQ[AEIOUsometimesY]** Thread)

Postby Descender » Tue Mar 09, 2021 10:13 am

JazzMusicStops wrote:
BRVR wrote:I don't have any desire to do the nasty with people, but i would like to cuddle some people and hold hands and stuff. I never really payed attention to genders. After talking with them and being friends I wanna do that stuff. That's not weird right? Maybe I'm just not old enough cuz i still think the nasty is disgusting.

You're still a kid this is completely normal

*also completely fine for when youre not a kid
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Re: Rainbow Ramblings! (LGBTQ[AEIOUsometimesY]** Thread)

Postby BRVR » Tue Mar 09, 2021 10:17 am

IM a squid
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Re: Rainbow Ramblings! (LGBTQ[AEIOUsometimesY]** Thread)

Postby Descender » Tue Mar 09, 2021 10:40 am

BRVR wrote:IM a squid

**squids too
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Re: Rainbow Ramblings! (LGBTQ[AEIOUsometimesY]** Thread)

Postby dolphina » Tue Mar 09, 2021 2:53 pm

are you a squid or a kid
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Re: Rainbow Ramblings! (LGBTQ[AEIOUsometimesY]** Thread)

Postby BRVR » Tue Mar 09, 2021 6:00 pm

dolphina wrote:are you a squid or a kid

Squid
Then a kid
Then a squid again
Thena. Kid
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Re: Rainbow Ramblings! (LGBTQ[AEIOUsometimesY]** Thread)

Postby Descender » Wed Mar 10, 2021 2:01 am

BRVR wrote:
dolphina wrote:are you a squid or a kid

Squid
Then a kid
Then a squid again
Thena. Kid

so you arent a squid at the moment
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Re: Rainbow Ramblings! (LGBTQ[AEIOUsometimesY]** Thread)

Postby Fenraiser » Thu Mar 11, 2021 7:49 pm

When I wanted to volunteer at a LGBTQ+ organization or go to Pride some of my relatives pushed against it for their homophobic reasons so my goal in college for my studies in human services is to volunteer at the gayest organization there is and continue to do so in my education and my career going forward.
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Re: Rainbow Ramblings! (LGBTQ[AEIOUsometimesY]** Thread)

Postby dolphina » Thu Mar 11, 2021 8:16 pm

piss off the homophobes

gay must prevail
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Re: Rainbow Ramblings! (LGBTQ[AEIOUsometimesY]** Thread)

Postby Descender » Fri Mar 12, 2021 6:10 am

dolphina wrote:piss off the homophobes

gay must prevail

wellll
you should do as much as you feel is safe
because pissing off homophobes related to you
is a dangerous game
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Re: Rainbow Ramblings! (LGBTQ[AEIOUsometimesY]** Thread)

Postby dolphina » Fri Mar 12, 2021 7:38 am

Ascender wrote:
dolphina wrote:piss off the homophobes

gay must prevail

wellll
you should do as much as you feel is safe
because pissing off homophobes related to you
is a dangerous game

piss off the homophobes that aren’t related to you

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Re: Rainbow Ramblings! (LGBTQ[AEIOUsometimesY]** Thread)

Postby Descender » Fri Mar 12, 2021 11:37 am

dolphina wrote:
Ascender wrote:
dolphina wrote:piss off the homophobes

gay must prevail

wellll
you should do as much as you feel is safe
because pissing off homophobes related to you
is a dangerous game

piss off the homophobes that aren’t related to you

gay must prevail

ok maybe i should extend that to people who are generally around you
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Re: Rainbow Ramblings! (LGBTQ[AEIOUsometimesY]** Thread)

Postby dolphina » Fri Mar 12, 2021 3:08 pm

Ascender wrote:
dolphina wrote:
Ascender wrote:
dolphina wrote:piss off the homophobes

gay must prevail

wellll
you should do as much as you feel is safe
because pissing off homophobes related to you
is a dangerous game

piss off the homophobes that aren’t related to you

gay must prevail

ok maybe i should extend that to people who are generally around you

piss off the homophobes that you don’t know

gay must prevail
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